This growing community was founded in 2013 (formerly HypnoBirthdays) by Keri Jarvis. New for 2017 are the gorgeous Chloe Mulholland, Steph Kidd & Tammy McCarthy.
Keri Jarvis (Group Hypnobirthing and Pregnancy Relaxation in Southend)
Mother (of a 4 year old tyrant, and a big fat baby), Wife, Birth Addict (not that I want to keep doing it forever- thinking 2 littles will be quite enough. But addicted to, obsessed by, totally dedicated to enabling parents to give their babies births that they all feel great about).
In my pre birthy state, I got myself a serious degree in Management and Maths (I am no creative type- I like strategies, and results) and worked in store management for M&S. I actually loved it (mostly), but having had my eyes opened to a world I never knew existed, how could I turn away? After Louis was born in 2013, I retrained with Katharine Graves at The Hypnobirthing Centre, and didn’t look back. I am thrilled to have joined The Calm Birth School Family in 2016, as it’s an approach that is totally in sync with my thinking.
I aim to tell you my stories in a way that explains what to expect from hypnobirthing with me.
I have been SO LUCKY to have supported around 150 families in welcoming their babies so far, and continue to be amazed at the power of a couple who are well prepared and in it together- always in awe of my amazing gang.
Outside of all of this, I have my little loves, Louis and Rory, with me most of the time, we’ve just bought our first house (FINALLY!) last year, so trying to make a house a home (all very exciting until you realise 90% of your money goes on stuff you will never even notice, wahhh).
I say it with a straight face- I am seriously jealous of my clients as they prepare to give birth, knowing that if all goes to plan, I’ll never get to do it again. It was the most transformational experience of my life. I did not see that coming. I want all the families I work with to come out of it feeling like legends, superheroes, queens and kings.
You can have a read of what some of them have to say about it on the Birth Stories page.
My experience of the early postnatal period this time round has prompted me to grow my offering. Realising how unprepared I had been the first time, vs the access I’d had to other experts and tools on take 2, I’m fairly surprised I survived it. I want all women to be armed with everything they need to make early motherhood as smooth as possible, I want them to know that they are nailing it.
I am also Deputy Chair of the Maternity Services Liaison Committee at Southend Hospital, an opportunity to work with your care providers and the relevant agencies to drive improvement in the care you receive. I like to keep birthy busy…
If you’re looking at a few different teachers (and so you should), here are my views on what you can ask us to work out who is right for you.
Chloe Mulholland (Hypnobirthing & Pregnancy Relaxation in Upminster)
So, where to start? Well from the beginning I suppose… Born in Newham, brought up in Upminster. From a family of cockneys, I am a Londoner at heart but love a breath of fresh country air.
I embarked into adult life working for the London Ambulance Service taking emergency 999 calls but this wasn’t my true calling. I’ve always had an insatiable curiosity about pregnancy and birth and I distinctly remember having a ‘lightbulb moment’ when I made the life-changing decision to become a midwife.
I did my 3 years of training with Kings’ College, London and graduated with First-Class Honours in 2012.
That was over 4 years ago now and during that time I have had my eyes opened to the immense power of birth. A transformative, yet vulnerable time in a woman’s life. And a time that I am determined to make better for as many families as I can.
I am now working on a midwife-led unit in central London, supporting families to meet their new additions in the most positive way I can.
I am also thrilled to be starting off on a new adventure… teaching hypnobirthing. I have seen many mums use hypnobirthing techniques through many different births and I am a complete advocate of its benefits. When it was my turn to give birth last year I knew that I had to learn more, so I attended one of Keri’s courses and I wholeheartedly believe that her support and teaching helped me to have the mind-blowingly, awesome experience I had (you can read about it here).
I did my hypnobirth training with the Association of Hypnobirthing Midwives and am excited to be teaching using the Calm Birth School method. Classes will be coming to Upminster in spring this year. Looking forward to spreading the positive vibes and supporting you gorgeous mamas!
Steph Kidd (Private Hypnobirthing and Pregnancy Relaxation in Southend)
Born and raised in Essex, currently living in Leigh on Sea. Mum of one notoriously chatty toddler Florence, aka Flossie (no idea where she got the talking gene from..!), and engaged to my partner of 10 years, Matt. My major passions are birth, childhood, breastfeeding, and crochet. I’m also a self confessed cloth nappy addict!
My career up until now has been in childcare. I spent a short time after qualifying working in nurseries, then 6 months as a home care assistant for children with medical needs, before moving into nannying which I have been doing since 2008. I’ve been lucky enough to work with some amazing families across Essex and London in this time, mostly those with young babies and toddlers. I’ve had such a blast doing so, and learned so much about children and their unique personalities / needs at the same time. I currently work part time looking after 2 boys locally, and have been very fortunate that Florence is able to come with me, so she barely leaves my side!
Falling pregnant in 2014 introduced me to the world of hypnobirthing, and I was fortunate enough to be one of the first Calm Birth School students! Although I’ve never been ‘scared’ of birth -in fact I’ve always been completely fascinated by it- I rarely heard anything positive from the women around me. My reading and research over the years had led me to positive birth stories though, and knew I wanted to aim for as natural a birth as possible. What I also knew was that I needed some extra education and techniques to use if I was going to navigate my pregnancy and labour the way I wanted to, as like most of women I had a limited understanding of how best to work with my body.
The Calm Birth School’s approach was completely on my wavelength, and with that under my belt I felt in control even when both pregnancy and labour threw a few curveballs at us. The feelings of strength, pride and empowerment that I felt after my labour got me thinking about how I could help more women achieve a birth they feel this good about. So this year I trained with KGHypnobirthing so I can do just that by offering hypnobirthing classes and pregnancy relaxation. Keri has been a fantastic support to me during this time, and I am so happy to be here on the Do It Like A Mother team, and excited to be teaching the same method which I know worked so well for me!
Tammy McCarthy (Babywearing Consultant)
Mum of two (soon-to-be three year old, Mia and just turned one, Max), living in Leigh-on-Sea. Qualified Accountant (day job), Babywearing Consultant and part-time jewellery maker (who knew all those things went together?!)
A friend recommended the amazing Keri during my second pregnancy and I fell in love with her hypnobirthing world, filled with information and empowerment. (You can read my birth story here….)
I was lucky enough to discover the world of babywearing prior to the birth of my first. For those unfamiliar, ‘babywearing’ is the term used for carrying your baby in a sling, baby carrier, piece of cloth (you actually don’t even need to buy anything special and can even use bedsheets, bath towels etc!) I bought a stretchy wrap (ideal for newborns), did a little learning from video tutorials and then found my local sling library where I learnt properly.
Within the next few months, my collection quickly grew as I acquired a woven wrap, a mei tai and a gauze wrap (and since then it hasn’t stopped growing!)
Fast forward to 2016, baby Max was born and worn from birth (Babywearing from birth). In September 2016, I undertook my Babywearing Consultant training with The School of Babywearing. I wanted to be able to help others understand and experience the benefits of Babywearing, and why a sling should be an essential on your new baby shopping list!